Replied by(jojo) Replied on (27/Jan/2009)

Thanks for this nice lecture. On one side it hurts me be cause you just pin point the ladies on other side in last lines i like most. Sherm-o-Hahya is not the job only for the ladies it is the job of all Muslim Men & women. As you mention above you directly pinpoint ladies.
I am gonna share one thing to you when i was in college(Nursing college) my christian instructor came to me and she said to me Rozi i like one pir sahib who is invited by our principal. I was surprise i said mam you are christian and Pir sahib(the religious man)is Muslim so why you are to much happy?
She said i like that man because relay he is representing Islam by his justures and i like the way he is making Dua. She epically went to all classes and requested to the teachers to let all the girls go to auditorium for Dua.
When we reach i saw that pir sahib 1st time the way he came to auditorium was really nice his eyes was on the floor even one look he did not see the girls. Than pir sahib said close the light because he was going to say Dua. Before he ask to shut off the light he said to all the girls i don't want you to cry may you will feel shame in light so that's why i am telling to turn it off. When he start to pray he start to cry not only he all my Muslim, Christian friends start to cry. All the auditorium was secreeming and crying in front of Allah for the forgiveness. After he finish the dua he left but in same way as you mention above.
My dear sister in our community if the women get right they will be a more good Muslim. But without rights they are not they can be never but still if you will compere them with other Muslim country our Pakistani ladies are good.
It is allowed for the Muslim men also to use haya.
Here in abroad what our Muslim brothers are behaving they like to play with white girls, they are letting them sit on their butt. They have illegal relations even babies. If you will tell them they will answer you back that Islam give them the permission to marry a christian. My question is Islam permit 1400 years ago when they quantity of Muslim was to low, so Islam permit them to marry with christian. But what now our so many sisters are unmarried because our people give priority to non-Muslim. Than the new coming generation from my those Islamic brothers who have a confuse religion they a creating a third religion mean my father is Muslim my mother is christian and i am a follower of both.
I have a lot of things to talk about but i don't want to hurt. I like your topic but please don't get angry i am also a Muslim. Dont blame a lady directly i slam came first on men Like Mohammad PUH
than to the lady. If our men will be Islam and give the right of their wife's of course the wife and than the daughter and the son will follow the right Islam. But if you will see around your side not to far in your own home, in your street, in your city how the people who claimed their self Muslim are treating their wife's like personnel servant like goat not more than a animal. I am a nurse and i saw in my practice so many innocent women who get burn by their husbands, few of husband they lost their daughter in card games and i saw only a mother for whom Allah said she has a "Jenna" under her feet. My sister why? because you will found only a women will fight for her children and one of our Muslim lady she did it. What she got from her husband acid on her mouth.
My dear sister their are lot of things which are happening in our country not only because of women all these are because of men who claim their self Muslim now Allah knows better than you and me who is Muslim and whose is not.
In short i would say if you claim that you
are a Muslim than your five thing must be Muslim 1 your eyes should be Muslim. So when ever you will see any thing wrong you will say to your self i am not allowed to see this thing because my eyes are Muslim.
Your tongue should be Muslim. b4 you will speek you should tell to your self i am not gonna talk on any wrong thing(abuse) because my tongue is Muslim.
Your ears should be Muslim. Dont listen any thing wrong.
Your brain should be Muslim. Dont keep dirt ideas in you mind which will hurt the humanity.
Your heart should be Muslim. Dont be black harted.
Your hands should be Muslim. Dont hurt any Muslim men or women.
Than no need to explane if person will start to Oby these command by his/her self. He/She will be totally a Muslim from his/her whole body.
Hope my sister you will not mind or get angry on me.
God bless you sisters hope Allah will guide all of us to understand the Islam in positive way.