He is rich, handsome and educated but still it doesn't click. Wondering what is wrong? can help you discover the spark you are looking for...
YOU, the girls, are constantly in search of a perfect match, whom we can call 'Mr. Perfect'. It's amazing how your list of the perfect match changes with time - or maybe with our moods. But the important thing is that men believe they know what a woman wants from them. This is a myth which slightly differs from the actual fact. You! Will spill the beans about the reality so that you can affirm with it.
Let's start with a simple question;
what are you looking for in your ideal match? The most expected answer would be; good height, education, money and a lucrative job! Even I agree to it. But is that all what keeps you hooked to a man? With all we know of love and life, when women start listing what they are looking for in a guy, it still usually starts with his looks, his location, his job, or maybe his sense of humour. But the truth is that any man - any height, any place and any job - can be the perfect partner if he expresses the qualities that women really want. These are the things that speak to their hearts and affect them deeply.
A woman wants a man who...
...makes laughter
the best medicine
Every woman loves to laugh and that's the main reason 'sense of humour' is consistently at the top of every woman's love list. If we can't laugh together really, what's the point in being together? It's the laughter which takes a woman out of her sour mood. The feeling that the man actually cares and wants to see you smile is ecstatic. And may be that's the reason why mature, abstemious and ascetic males are always in-short of girl friends.
...comes out with friends being just right
Like a designer coat you get for a steal, what's the fun of talking about your big find if you can't show it off? A perfect man isn't just perfect when we are alone with him; he's perfect in public, too. For most women, friends and family are a big part of their lives, so they want their match to fit right in and make a great impression. After all, women love being envied by their friends. Don't they?
...agrees to go split when ordering food
Guys can have half of your chicken sandwich if we can have half of their burger? Their French fries are our French fries? It's an admirable trait if your man shares a meal-literally.
...surprises with thoughtful gifts and gestures
This is where those flowers come in. Maybe a new book or CD you wanted. Or even a sweet text-message in the middle of the night really does the job. Big or small, it really is the thought that counts.
...compliments on things other than looks
There's something magical about a man, who notices the more profound, valuable qualities in women - who says things like, 'You're so interesting', 'You're so intuitive' or 'You're so smart'. Sounds unusual but you really look for a man who sees us pretty deep down.
...makes you trust him completely.
A perfect man makes a woman feel safe and secure. As it goes, "Trust is the titanium casing of a long-lasting relationship. Without that strong force field, you can't survive. It's what makes you a working team."
thinks it's adorable when your are yourselves in front of him
It's rare to find a man who thinks it's cute that you wear decade-old T-shirts to bed, can eat a whole pizza by yourself and spend late evenings watching soap operas. And that's what makes him so special. Assuming we agree not to push it, the ideal guy would make you feel loved and accepted when your're being your most natural selves.
Don't you all agree to it? It's time to accept it; you might find the looks and the money fascinating but these little gestures get you going in a relationship. If you have a friend with these qualities, think twice. Maybe he is the match you were looking for.
Good Luck!