Always trust your children to Allah's care.
Bring them to the Masaajids.
Challenge them to high goals In deen.
Delight in their achievements "Masha`Allah"
Exalt Allah in their presence "Subhaan`Allah"
Frown on evil " Astaghfirullah"
Give them love and understanding
Hear their problems, be there for them.
Ignore not their childish fears, tell them Allah is Always there.
Joyfully accept their apologies, Allah is All Forgiving.
Keep their confidence.
Live a good example before them, Islamic etiquettes.
Make them your friends.
Never ignore their endless questions!
Open your heart to their love.
Pray for them by name, ...May Allah make them the coolness of your eyes.
Quicken your interest in their spirituality, Dhikrullah (remembrance of Allah)
Remember their needs, show mercy to them
Show them the way of Our Prophet Muhammad SalLalLahu Alehe WaSalLam and his companions. (Peace be upon them All)
Teach them to appreciate every little in life. "Alhamdulillah"
Understand they are still young and Innocent. "Fitrah"
Verify your statements, speak clearly (Repeat it 3 times) like the way Prophet Muhammad SalLalLahu Alehe WaSalLam used to.
Wean them from bad company.
X eXpect them to obey, Allah and their parents,
Yearn for Allah's best for them.
Zealously guide them in the Quran and Sunnah.
InshaAllah Ameen Ya Rabbul Alameen
SalLalLahu Alehe WaSalLam
Syed Muhammad Kashif Ali Abidi
Karachi - Pakistan